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4
Oct

What Would You Do?

Visits: 129 | Posted by: David in Ministry, Misc Ramblings, Spiritual Musings

Not sure why, but I woke up this morning thinking about a philosophical question I read in a book a few months ago. The question goes something like this:

If you knew you couldn’t fail,
and there were no obstacles standing in your way,
what would you do?

Again, I don’t know why this question came to mind this particular morning…but it’s fun to ponder the possibilities. One thing I’m pretty sure about is that I wouldn’t be doing what I’m doing now (vocationally). The good news for me is that I’m confident I am on the right path now that I’m going back to school and answering God’s calling. I have a passion for teaching. And would love nothing more than to use that gift in the church and broader community.

So what about you? What would you do? Are you doing it now? What’s standing in your way? I truly believe that God wants us to fulfill our passions and gifts (that’s why He gave them to us). Now, that doesn’t always translate into a vocation (sometimes work is an ends to a means…I think), but it translates into finding that thing (to quote City Slickers, “That one thing”) that stirs your heart and moves you to action.

What would you do??

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27
Sep

Let the Hunt Begin

Visits: 162 | Posted by: David in Hunting, Misc Ramblings, Recreation

It’s been awhile since I’ve blogged…sorry about that. It’s been a crazy busy couple of weeks. And with the busy comes the stress…but I’ve got a stress reliever coming in a week.

About a year ago, Justin Monk and I started talking about learning to hunt so that we could someday teach our boys how to hunt…you know, a “pass on the tradition” kind of thing. So we started to talking to some guys at work who go hunting every year and began the year-long journey of getting ready for the first hunt. We’ve spend months now getting all of our gear collected (neither of us had much to start with), practicing shooting, getting our tags, and dreaming of the day we’d head out with the guys and kill something!!  ;o)

That day is just around the corner. Our first hunt starts next Friday (October 5th). 8 of us are heading up to Wyoming to “harvest” us some antelope. I’m sure nobody will get shot…but you never know.

We have our second hunt in November for Deer and our third in January for Elk (both in Colorado). Of course I am going into each hunt with high expectations (everyone fills every tag right? Nobody comes home empty handed I’m sure). However, while I do hope to get some game meat for the freezer…it’s not just about killing something (although that would help in the “learning” category)…it’s also about getting away for some R&R.

There will be more to come on this topic….including some picture I hope. So stay tuned…

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19
Sep

Pennies Should be Outlawed

Visits: 204 | Posted by: David in Misc Ramblings

I’m going to come right out and say it: I hate pennies! Yes, those copper coins with Lincoln’s picture on it…worthless.

I wish the feds would stop making them. I’d be more than happy to round all cash-based transactions up to the nearest nickel (and then set our sites on that coin next). Pennies are so worthless, and so few people like carrying them around, that we even have those “Need a Penny Take One, Have a Penny leave One” jars at most retail stores (people gladly leave them because they hate them). I’d just as soon give the extra change to the business and call it even.

Not sure why I have such a dislike for these coins, but i can’t stand them…even threw 2 of them away today because they were bugging me (don’t tell my kids!).

So I am unofficially starting the “Down With Pennies!” movement…pretty sure it won’t get much traction.

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31
Aug

Perspective

Visits: 139 | Posted by: David in Broncos, Family, Misc Ramblings, Sports

Thanks to the generosity of my amazing Pastor (if you haven’t heard Pastor Ray preach and teach you really need to), I was able to take Logan to the Bronco game last night. He could not have been more excited when I told him we were going…he even finished his homework without a single complaint.

To everyone else it was “just a preseason game”, but to him it was an adventure. He’s been asking to go to Invesco field for awhile now…and he has really wanted to go this year since watching the Broncos on T.V. has become more interesting to him. On the way there (we took the Light Rail…which he loved too) I asked him which he was looking forward to the most: seeing the players or seeing the stadium. He couldn’t decide.

So we get to the stadium and the boy was truly in awe. It’s big, it’s shiny, it’s larger than life…especially to an 8year old boy. The seats were great–Club Level about even with the South End Zone (not a bad way to experience your first pro football game). He was so awestruck by the entire scene he couldn’t even eat his $5 hot dog (that’s a whole other blog…how do they sell a $0.25 hot dog for $5 and keep a straight face?)…and hot dogs & ketchup are a major food group for Logan!

I don’t think he watched much of the game. And not because it was mainly third string players, primarily because there was too much else for him to take in. There were roughly 55,000 in attendance, but I doubt anyone paid as much attention to the entire scenery as Logan did…he even noticed the guys standing at the top of the scoreboard (I had to look twice to see them after he pointed them out).

It was fun watching him experience this new atmosphere. For most of the people at the game it was just a game. For Logan it was a little more than that. He may or may  not look back on this as a grand memory in his lifetime, but it was still watching someone experience something larger than life for the first time. Made me appreciate it a little more too.

Thanks again Ray for the opportunity…you made an 8year old’s day!

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28
Aug

Reconnecting and Reminiscing

Visits: 167 | Posted by: David in Friends, Misc Ramblings

This past week I have reconnected with two of my good high school friends. In both cases it’s been a long time since we’ve talked or been connected in any significant way (aside from a few email discussions a few years back…about 18 years since we graduated). I must admit that I am terrible when it comes to staying connected with friends (and sometimes family) that aren’t close to me geographically (my issue not theirs).

So as I’ve been reconnecting with these two friends (who I was very close to in high school), my mind naturally has wandered back to the “good ol’ times”. In just a few short emails we’ve already started reminiscing and telling “remember when” stories. Some of the stories bring back good memories…some bring back not so good memories. But each one of those stories, and each one the people in the stories, has in one way or another shaped who I am today.

In some cases I have had overcome those “shapings”…as I was “mishappen” by those events and decisions that I made. In other cases I can say that the events, decisions, and people that made up my past have shaped me in a positive way (sometimes in ways they will never know).

Reminds me of the passage in Scripture that says ”God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them” (Romans 8:28). God has used my passed (the good and the bad) to shape me into His man for His purposes.

In any event, I look forward to connecting and reminiscing even more with two new/old friends. I’m sure I will even be able to make other connections. I for one love reliving the past…good, bad, or ugly. I generally can find the humor and good side of those experiences. And those experiences are uniquely mine. Even if some of them did involve large amounts of tequila at too young of an age (maybe that’s where those brain cells went!).

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24
Jul

Double Trouble for Lohan

Visits: 106 | Posted by: David in Misc Ramblings

This is one of those stories you couldn’t make up if you tried. Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve heard that Lindsay Lohan has been arrested AGAIN for DUI (in case you have been living under a rock…you can read the story here). What a mess. First she has a major struggle with alcohol and drug abuse and is in rehab multiple times. On top of that she gets busted for DUI and a Hit-and-Run charge (that happened over Memorial Day weekend–just turned herself in last week for that one). And then early this morning she gets busted again for DUI and driving with a suspended license. And the icing on the cake? During a pre-booking search the cops find cocaine on her–add drug possession to the list!

All day long I’ve been listening and reading about this story…and I must say that my first reaction was much the same as most of what I heard: “This girl needs to be put away for a loooong time! She is a mess!”. During my workout this afternoon I heard a conservative TV host rail on about how people are feeling sorry for her when instead they should be throwing the book at her.

I have to be honest…I’m struggling with this one. One the one hand, I certainly think she deserves whatever punishment is coming her way. And I hope she gets everything she deserves…especially if it wakes her up (why do we so often have to hit absolute rock bottom before we turn things around??).

On the other hand…she is a mess. And for some reason my heart goes out to her. She is obviously trapped in a deep cycle of addiction. She is screaming (in her own way) for help…and I’m sure she is scared to death that she won’t be able to conquer this beast that has its grip on her. She is a hurt, scared little girl.

Something our pastor said this week keeps ringing in my head when I think about her situation: “Jesus died for Lindsay Lohan”. It’s so easy for me to pass judgement on her instead of having a heart of compassion. It’s so easy to think I’d never do the things she is doing (that thought lasts for about a nano-second because I know it isn’t true). It’s the old “there but for the grace of God go I” cliche…only this time I’m not sure it’s a cliche.

Call me a “bleeding heart”, but for some reason this story has me being more compassionate than I typically am for celebrities. I think this girl found too much fame and fortune and just flat out wasn’t prepared for it. Mix in the wrong crowd and you’ve got a recipe for disaster…the nightmare she finds herself in right now.

I just pray that she hits bottom and genuinely turns to God for help out of the “miry clay”. And right on the heals of that prayer is that I will learn from her mistakes and keep my nose pointed down the narrow way myself…and maybe even exercise a little more compassion for those closer to me that are waging their own battles.

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18
Jul

Vacation

Visits: 132 | Posted by: David in Band of Brothers, Misc Ramblings, Recreation

As my previous post makes obvious, our family went on a little vacation over the weekend. But that wasn’t the end of my vacation time…I’ve taken this week off as well. The best part? We’ve got nothing big planned! An entire week to do…well…whatever!

And I highly recommend it. Just time away from work and the normal routine of life. Time to recharge and refresh. Time to do stuff I haven’t had the time to do. Time to just hang with the wife and kids. This doesn’t mean we have nothing planned or haven’t done anything fun…just nothing big.

So far, the highlight of this week has been going Indoor Skydiving. Anita got me a certificate for my birthday (my 2006 birthday). I hadn’t gone until now because the weight limit was 250 lbs…and I was right at that limit until I lost my 60 lbs. I held it out as a reward for when I lost the weight and kept it off. Man was it worth it!! One of the coolest experiences I’ve had in a long time. Ready for the real thing now!

Also had a great Platoon meeting last night. God is truly moving among us guys…and I look forward to every week. We even had two new guys show up last night. We’re going through Kenny Luck’s Dream and it has been challenging so far (and we’re only two chapters in). If you’re not involved in a men’s group (and you’re a man) I highly recommend it…you’ll never be the same!

So what’s the plan for the rest of the week? Just finished our Boy Scout website design so I’ll probably put some finishing touches on that. A movie or two? We’re heading to Wyoming to see the In-Laws (no worries, I actually like them…what’s not to like about a Father-in-Law that builds guns for a living?).

I think a few more vacations just like this one are in my future…hopefully yours too.

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6
Jul

One of Those Weeks

Visits: 339 | Posted by: David in Fellowship, Misc Ramblings

UPDATE: After a proper chastising and reminder from Grant, I need to amend this blog and clarify what I was trying to say (sometimes my writing doesn’t convey my true intentions). Grant reminded me that he and Amy invited us over on July 4th (which we turned down for various reasons). I know…how do you spell hypocrite? “D-A-V-I-D” apparently. So, to clarify…I’m more talking about close friendships. The “no need to clean my house because they’re coming over” friendships. We’ve had them…and are developing a few as we speak. And I’m over my little rant now and feeling better. Like I said, it was just one of those weeks.  ;o)

 I am having “one of those weeks”. They happen to me every now and then…I hope they never happen to you. It’s been one of those weeks when nothing seems to be going right with the world. Now mind you, it’s not true (and I know it’s not true)…but to me that’s how it feels.

Not sure what triggers it. Not sure exactly how to stop it.

Frankly, I’m hoping writing about it helps a little bit since nothing else I’ve tried (aside from time) seems to work. I have just simply been down in the dumps all week. And my poor wife is stuck bearing the brunt of it. I just hope she realizes it’s not her I’m down in the dumps about…not sure what shape I’d be in without her.

This week the cause seems to be friendships (I’m never sure what the main cause will be). At the risk of sounding petty, whiny, and flat out self-centered and immature…it just doesn’t seem like I can develop really good friendships. And sometimes it just depresses me. Maybe I’m too needy? Maybe not needy enough? Maybe not friendly enough? I’m not sure.

It’s not that I don’t have friends…just not close friends. On most weekends and holidays we don’t have anyone ask us to hang out. Can’t actually remember the last time it happened. Makes me wonder what’s wrong with us. Is it our kids? Is it me? Is it us? Kind of frustrating because I hear all the time how lonely society is nowadays. Is that true? If so, why is it so hard?

And I’m actively involved in ministry (maybe too many right now in fact)…but I’m not connecting like I’d like to be. I think my ministry is effective…but is it really building community when I feel so isolated? Or is this just the enemy doing a number on me?

I pray about it, but nothing seems to change. Maybe that’s the problem…maybe I need to change.

Something to think about. Not sure I feel better now…maybe a little stupid and embarrassed for venting like this. But that’s supposed to be the point of this blog…the good, the bad and the ugly along the journey. Thanks for listening to my rant (if you’re still listening). If you’ve ever felt this way before…please share. Misery loves company right??

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4
Jul

The Lighter Side

Visits: 296 | Posted by: David in Family, Humor, Misc Ramblings

After reviewing some of my posts over the last month I have noticed a slight trend toward the serious side of life. Anyone who knows me very well knows that I’m not generally serious for very long. Now I know that’s kind of the intent of the blog, but I think it’s time for the lighter side. So, here’s a story that should make you smile (and it’s all true)…

As you know, I’ve been in the process of losing weight over the past 5 months. I hit my target loss of 60 pounds several weeks ago. One of the few downsides to losing that much weight is the change in clothes sizes. Don’t get me wrong, buying a few new clothes is fun…but an entire wardrobe gets expensive after awhile! But my resourceful wife (who loves to shop) has managed to find great bargains on just about every item of clothing I now have.

A couple of weeks ago I came home to find a new package of underwear on my dresser (one of the items I never really thought about needing to replace until they started falling off…too much information??). At the time, the only problem I could find with the new package was that they were “tighty whities”. I don’t do “tighty whities”. Used to…not anymore.

So I mentioned it to Anita. And that’s when the real problem came up. Turns out we couldn’t return the package. Mind you, I hadn’t opened them yet and was certain she still had the receipt. So what could the problem possibly be??

Get this –> She bought them at The Goodwill!!! My wonderful. adoring, beautiful wife bought me underwear from The Goodwill…still boggles my mind!

Who buys underwear for their husband at The Goodwill (in the package or not)!?!? And who in their right mind would wear them?

In case you’re wondering…no, I don’t wear them!

Happy 4th of July!!

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28
Jun

Am I a Fireman Yet?

Visits: 115 | Posted by: David in Misc Ramblings, Spiritual Musings

This is one of those email forwards everyone gets. I must admit, this one got to me:

In Phoenix, Arizona, a 26-year-old mother stared down at her 6 year old son, who was dying of terminal leukemia.

Although her heart was filled with sadness, she also had a strong feeling of determination. Like any parent, she wanted her son to grow up and fulfill all his dreams. Now that was no longer possible. The leukemia would see to that. But she still wanted her son’s dreams to come true.

She took her son’s hand and asked, “Billy, did you ever think about what you wanted to be once you grew up? Did you ever dream and wish what you would do with your life?”

Mommy, “I always wanted to be a fireman when I grew up.”

Mom smiled back and said, “Let’s see if we can make your wish come true.”

Later that day she went to her local fire Department in Phoenix, Arizona, where she met Fireman Bob, who had a heart as big as Phoenix.   She explained her son’s final wish and asked if it might be possible to give her 6 year old son a ride around the block on a fire engine. 
Fireman Bob said, “Look, we can do better than that. If you’ll have your son ready at seven o’clock Wednesday morning, we’ll make him an honorary fireman for the whole day. He can come down to the fire station, eat with us, go out on all the fire calls, the whole nine yards!  And if you’ll give us his sizes, we’ll get a real fire uniform for him, with a real fire hat - not a toy — one-with the emblem of the Phoenix Fire Department on it, a yellow slicker like we wear and rubber boots. They’re all manufactured right here in Phoenix, so we can get them fast.”

Three days later Fireman Bob picked up Billy, dressed him in his uniform and escorted him from his hospital bed to the waiting hook and ladder truck. Billy got to sit on the back of the truck and help steer it back to the fire station. He was in heaven. 

There were three fire calls in Phoenix that day and Billy got to go out on all three calls. He rode in the different fire engines, the Paramedic’s’ van, and even the fire chief’s car.  He was also videotaped for the local news program.

Having his dream come true, with all the Love and attention that was lavished upon him, so deeply touched Billy, that he lived three months longer than any doctor thought possible. 

One night all of his vital signs began to drop dramatically and the head nurse, who believed in the hospice concept - that no one should die alone, began to call the family members to the hospital. Then she remembered the day Billy had spent as a fireman, so she called the Fire Chief and asked if it would be possible to send a fireman in uniform to the hospital to be with Billy as he made his transition.

The chief replied, “We can do better than that. We’ll be there in five minutes. Will you please do me a favor? When you hear the sirens screaming and see the lights flashing, will you announce over the PA system, that there is not a fire? It’s the department coming to see one of its finest members one more time. And will you open the window to his room?”

About five minutes later a hook and ladder truck arrived at  the hospital and extended its ladder up to Billy’s third floor  open window——– 16 fire-fighters climbed up the ladder into  Billy’s room. With his mother’s permission, they hugged him and held him and told him how much they LOVED him.

With his dying breath, Billy looked up at the fire chief and said, “Chief, am I really a fireman now?”

“Billy, you are, and the Head Chief, Jesus, is holding your hand,” the chief said.

With those words, Billy smiled and said, “I know, He’s been holding my hand all day, and the angels have been singing…” 

He closed his eyes one last time..

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